Millennials comprise more than a quarter of the more than 40 million Americans who identify as caregivers. In fact, the average caregiver age is down from 53 (2010) to 47 (2018), and many of these younger adults are part of the “sandwich generation”—AKA those who are balancing the care of both their children and aging parents.
As the average caregiver age continues to lower, it’s crucial for the healthcare industry—and society as a whole—to understand the myriad challenges that come with balancing careers, families and caregiving responsibilities.
In addition to logistical “gymnastics,” millennial caregivers are facing significant mental health challenges. According to the American Mental Health Foundation, 40% of millennials already live with mental health conditions. The emotional strain of caregiving can intensify these challenges, often worsening feelings such as depression and anxiety. This is reflected in recent research, which suggests that two-thirds of unpaid caregivers for older adults experience at least one adverse mental or behavioral health symptom.
Studies also show that millennials are more socially isolated in their 20s and 30s than previous generations have been; an estimated 30% of millennials suffer from loneliness, and caregivers are twice as likely to experience isolation as other adults.
Fortunately, millennials are more open to seeking mental health support than previous generations, breaking down stigmas and creating more pathways for caregivers to access counseling, support groups and telehealth services. Yet when caregivers don’t prioritize their own health, they risk burnout—a state of emotional exhaustion caused by feeling overwhelmed and depleted from excessive demands on their energy, strength, and resources. However, focus on mental well-being is becoming an integral part of caregiving for this generation—especially when it comes to combatting caregiver burnout.
About 53 million Americans care for a loved one, and about 60% are doing so while also trying to earn a living. Unlike older generations who may be through their parenting years, many millennial caregivers juggle childcare and eldercare simultaneously, creating a heightened need for workplace flexibility. Remote work and flexible schedules are essential to help millennial caregivers manage these roles and meet the needs of those they care for effectively.
Following the COVID-19 pandemic, 73% of caregivers utilized the time saved by working from home to care for their children. In addition to offering remote work options and paid family leave, caregiver support programs facilitate employees to balance these responsibilities while maintaining employment.
The Society for Human Resource Management recommends employers offer services specifically supporting sandwich generation caregivers, including counseling, virtual workshops, and employee support groups. As life’s challenges impact the workforce, it is increasingly important for employers to consider and accommodate these factors to better support their businesses and their employees.
To combat the emotional strain of caregiving, millennial caregivers need strong community networks, including respite care, volunteer services and meal programs. These resources alleviate some of the caregiving pressure and help build a sense of community support. The Mayo Clinic recommends that caregivers make self-care a priority by setting aside time for themselves, whether through maintaining hobbies, engaging in therapy, or utilizing respite care services. These activities provide an opportunity to recharge and reduce stress, ultimately improving the caregiver’s ability to manage daily responsibilities.
Humans thrive on social connections, and a sense of belonging and meaningful relationships can act as a buffer against the challenges caregivers face. Creating new social opportunities such as joining a local group, attending community events, or connecting with fellow caregivers can foster deeper connections. Additionally, practicing mindfulness and engaging in regular physical activity are key steps in enhancing mental clarity and reducing stress. Whether it’s taking a few minutes each day for meditation or going for a walk, these actions can help caregivers maintain a balanced and healthy lifestyle.
As more and more families stray from a “traditional” structure, caregiving is becoming increasingly multigenerational. We are being called to recognize caregiving as an age-diverse task, creating sustainable support systems that address the specific needs of millennial caregivers.
Evan Ostrovsky is CEO and executive director of Special Touch Home Care, a Brooklyn-based home health services provider, which serves the greater New York region.