Kendall Jenner, a Scorpio.
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Sometimes, it seems safest not to let yourself really care about anything. The more fervent your desire, the more vulnerable you are to disappointment; the more deeply you love someone, the more they could hurt you. But today, the new moon in Scorpio reminds you that, in spite of the risk of frustration and pain, real passion is worth it. Don’t waste your time on earth feeling lukewarm about everything.
Some people find it endlessly fascinating to delve into the reasons why others act the way they do. For you, though, the motivations behind someone’s behavior are secondary; it’s the actions themselves — and their consequences — that count. Today, though, digging into the whys might prove surprisingly useful. If you can figure out what motivates people, you can work with them more effectively, you can better support them, and, when needed, you can help them change.
You often come across as pretty low-key — you don’t see the point in getting worked up over unimportant things, or creating drama where none is warranted. Sometimes, though, this causes other people to misread you, thinking you’re weak-willed or a pushover. Today, though, it might be time to let your more intense side show. Remind the people in your life that you’re a force to be reckoned with. Just because you choose to be gentle and kind most of the time doesn’t mean you don’t have a backbone.
You’re constantly taking in new information: You read widely, pay attention to what happens around you, and ask sharp, incisive questions — but it can be hard to figure out what to do with all that information. The sheer volume of raw data can make it hard to separate what’s important from what’s just fluff. Today, though, the pieces might finally come together. You already have the knowledge you need — all that’s left is to put it together.
If you don’t see a way to change the world immediately — a step you can take this instant, a project guaranteed to produce results — you sometimes conclude that it can’t be done at all. Why sink a lot of time and energy into something doomed to fail? But today, even if you’re feeling pessimistic, remember that you have energy, creativity, a bright life force. Don’t let your power wither on the vine: Use your gifts. The results might not be exactly what you hoped for, but they’ll be worthwhile nonetheless.
Nobody is satisfied with the world around them all the time. Some people cope by changing themselves to better fit the circumstances they live in; others — like you — would rather try to change their circumstances. It’s a noble impulse, but change takes so long and the process often feels exhausting and thankless. So today, tap into the inner strength that lives in you already. Don’t wait until the world is perfect to start living — and enjoying — your life.
You understand — better than most — that one of the best ways to learn is simply to pay attention. Keeping your eyes open can be more illuminating than studying all the facts and figures; observing the way people behave can sometimes tell you more than hours of conversation. Today, though, it might pay to be a bit more direct. If you’re wondering what a friend is thinking, or whether they’re upset with you, don’t beat around the bush.
You have a strong, deeply held set of personal values, but it’s not always easy to live them. Every day, people demand that you make exceptions, setting your principles aside to make others more comfortable. But while some give-and-take is important, you shouldn’t have to compromise on what truly matters. So today, decide that you’ll no longer let the important things slide. Be generous about the small stuff and stubborn over the big issues. Some people might wish you were a bit more pliable, but others will respect your steadfastness.
Most of the time, you move through the world with a deep and unshakable confidence. You know who you are, and it takes a lot to make you question it. But lately you’ve been encountering people and situations that have made you do just that: Have you been on the wrong path this whole time? Today, you’ll have a chance to change course if you want — but more likely, all you really need is some affirmation.
You like to believe that you’re not afraid of anything — but that’s probably more aspirational than factual. Everyone, even you, fears something — and pretending otherwise, or avoiding thinking about it, will only make you feel brittle and anxious. Today, the best thing you can do is be honest with yourself — and think seriously about what you’ll do if (or when) you have to face your fears. The more truthful you are about what scares you, the braver, steadier, and more prepared you’ll feel.
While some people are satisfied with mediocrity, that isn’t good enough for you: You’re driven to be the very best you can. It’s not about being better than other people; it’s about competing with yourself — knowing that you’re continually pushing your own limits. Sometimes, though, you start measuring your progress against the people around you. Today, remind yourself that your friends aren’t your competitors. If you stop trying to climb over one another, you can scale new heights together.
The less you care about the work you do, the less stressful it tends to be. If you aren’t emotionally invested, it’s easier to brush off all the small disappointments along the way; if you don’t care deeply about the people you work with, it’s easier to disengage from petty dramas. Sometimes, it’s nice to maintain some distance — but ultimately, genuine passion is worth all the stress it brings. Today, stop holding everything at arm’s length. Focus on the projects that truly light you up.
When you’re restless and ready for a change, sometimes all you need is to keep your eyes open for an opportunity to present itself. But there are times when, no matter how alert and open-minded you are, no excitement comes your way. Today, resolve to stop waiting around for other people to invite you into the sort of thrill you’re seeking. You have more power than you realize to shape your days — and if you resolve to make them interesting, you’ll end up living the life you’ve been longing for.
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